It’s time to face the real world all alone. You will be in deep trouble of facing reality after your break up. You will not find anything interesting. Loneliness will start giving a lot of pain to your mind and heart. This loneliness is a big fear factor once you fall apart from your partner.
Give yourself time sit back with blank mind, DON’T think, because thinking will just give you thoughts of your partner. Cry if you want but make sure that after you finish crying, you don’t cry again for the same. Start thinking positively and practically, what went wrong? Why this happened? Find out the reason and learn from it. Our life is all about experiences.
Look around you, feel it and make changes in yourself. This world is not emotional, practicality overtook emotions here. Most of the people have come across that time phase, where people are more emotional and sensitive. Feelings are dying in front of realistic world. Your partner can be a part of this realistic world and don’t blame him/her for being practical. He/she must have gone through more hard time than you, to think on that practical level. Don’t be too much emotional, I think, your break up is enough to make you more sensible or practical if you were in deep and true love of your life.
People says, forget your past, throw away your partners gifts and wipe out all memories, but I will say that there is just one thing that remains with you forever, that is memories. Keep good memories of your relationship in one corner of your heart. Don’t blame anyone, it is not their mistakes sometime situation changes and we can’t handle them. No one wants to lose their love but this practical world doesn’t allow them to hold it on. Blaming someone is waste once you lost it, so learn from it and go ahead.
This is tough task but you don’t have choice. Don’t go in depression; don’t fall for alcohol or ciggies. Go in friends, roam, chat, party hard and have fun with them. Don’t sit with blank mind, keep yourself busy in work which you enjoy doing. Give time to yourself, start loving you. Start loving your being single status. Realize very important thing when it’s come to living life, it is only you and you so understand yourself and have fun. Keep yourself open to this practical world, you will find someone who will love you with emotions and feelings and you can make him/her your life partner.