Beware Of Fake Friendships Of Girls - Don’t Use And Don’t Get Used

Let’s have a mind opening blog guys. Today I am writing on fake friendships of girls and using boys just for their benefits. This might be controversial, there can be debate on this issue but I am giving my views.

I have seen girls like this, some of them might be good at hearts and some of them just want to take advantage of boys. Girls with a good heart unknowingly use boys for their benefits and few girls knowingly take advantage of their friendship with boys. How good girls use you unknowingly, this is hard part to understand and digesting this truth is hardest task for boy and girl too who is using you as she is doing it unintentionally. Fake girls and how they are using your friendship for their motto this can be understood easily if you keep emotions out of it.

Good girls don’t make friendship with boys to take advantage but with time and conditions, they start using you. I can give you many examples,
1. When your friend doesn’t tell you and use you to make her boyfriend jealous.
2. When she is emotional she shares her problem with you and keeps you apart in her joys.
3. When she doesn’t understand the meaning of friendship and wants you to be with her all time, just like a boyfriend.
4. When you stand for her in her hard times but she doesn’t care at all about you.

In this case just try and understand there might be nothing wrong in your friend’s mind but she is using you unknowingly. Now you have to understand this first and try to explain her that she is using you unknowingly, tell her that “she can take help from you but she should stop using you”

Boys whoever targeted by fake girls are either interested in them or proposed by them. These girls keep boys waiting and ask them to be friend till the time or they just reject them and say them “We can be friends”. In this case boys are used very badly in every aspect. Like,
1. As mention in first case you can be used to make her boyfriend jealous.
2. In this case you can be used for fake emotional problems.
3. These girls can use you for your money.

Finding out this issue that you are being used in this case is very easy but as your emotions are very strong for that girl and even you are interested in her, dealing with this situation becomes very tough. I will suggest if you come to know that you are being used then keep feelings apart and deal with the situation. You should go and tell her that “you don’t want this friendship anymore”.

I am writing it with my and my friend’s experiences. I am not saying just girls are using boys. I know even boys are using girls in friendship. I respect girls but yes what I wrote is happening all around.

According to me friendship is most important part of life. This relationship plays all roles in our life like friends are brother, sister, parents and sometime best companion when you are hurt from your love. So don’t misjudge your friends take time and understand that “Are you having a genuine friend?" Look you won’t meet all the people genuine in your life. So understand your friends and their friendship. Don’t Use and Don’t get Used mainly in friendship or in any relationships.

It’s Time To Face World All Alone After Break Up

It’s time to face the real world all alone. You will be in deep trouble of facing reality after your break up. You will not find anything interesting. Loneliness will start giving a lot of pain to your mind and heart. This loneliness is a big fear factor once you fall apart from your partner.

Give yourself time sit back with blank mind, DON’T think, because thinking will just give you thoughts of your partner. Cry if you want but make sure that after you finish crying, you don’t cry again for the same. Start thinking positively and practically, what went wrong? Why this happened? Find out the reason and learn from it. Our life is all about experiences.

Look around you, feel it and make changes in yourself. This world is not emotional, practicality overtook emotions here. Most of the people have come across that time phase, where people are more emotional and sensitive. Feelings are dying in front of realistic world. Your partner can be a part of this realistic world and don’t blame him/her for being practical. He/she must have gone through more hard time than you, to think on that practical level. Don’t be too much emotional, I think, your break up is enough to make you more sensible or practical if you were in deep and true love of your life.

People says, forget your past, throw away your partners gifts and wipe out all memories, but I will say that there is just one thing that remains with you forever, that is memories. Keep good memories of your relationship in one corner of your heart. Don’t blame anyone, it is not their mistakes sometime situation changes and we can’t handle them. No one wants to lose their love but this practical world doesn’t allow them to hold it on. Blaming someone is waste once you lost it, so learn from it and go ahead.

This is tough task but you don’t have choice. Don’t go in depression; don’t fall for alcohol or ciggies. Go in friends, roam, chat, party hard and have fun with them. Don’t sit with blank mind, keep yourself busy in work which you enjoy doing. Give time to yourself, start loving you. Start loving your being single status. Realize very important thing when it’s come to living life, it is only you and you so understand yourself and have fun. Keep yourself open to this practical world, you will find someone who will love you with emotions and feelings and you can make him/her your life partner.

Come Up From Break Up

 

I know this is very difficult to deal with break-up but what can you do? Except facing it. Is anything left there? That you can get it back. If it is there then try out for that. If nothing is left then move on. It is just not you who is going through this pain, just check your around you will find lot of broken hearts and their stories.

Ending-up a relation can teach you many things. These broken heart's stories can make you understand lot of stuffs. You just have to choose right one and take positive from it. There can be many broken hearts which are tumbling with destructive ways but there must be few ruined heart who come up from there break up. Learn from them.

What can be reason of your break-up :

 Misunderstanding : Just think if your partner can't understand you now, how the hell he or she would have understood you in future. So you are blessed that you are getting some pain now instead of getting it for life-time. Less Love and Care : If this is the reason then, congrats you are out of it.  

Getting Less Time From Partner : Here understanding plays main role. No Trust : If your partner was not trusting you then your relationship was going nowhere. It is better you came out of it. If your partner broke your trust then you are lucky and that is giving good enough reason to you to forget him or her.  

No Faith : What is point of spending life with a person who is not having faith in you or lost faith in you even after you did lot of faithful things for him or her.

Hey you guys must have understand now, how to get positive from you negative break-up. Try to manipulate your life. "Control your thoughts and win game of Life".

Let me know your views about this blog and If you are having any other reason than this for ending-up your relationship mail me at kirans3003@gmail.com. I might give you positive from your reason as well.

Is It Necessary To Break Up Your Relationship?

 

I don’t know why people break up their relationships so easily Is it a trend now to move on or to try and choose the best one? If that is the case then where are emotions, feelings and love?

If there is a strong reason then what is the guarantee that your future partner won’t give you that reason? If loyalty, trust, different thought processes lead to unsolved arguments that further leads to lack of love or lack of love with time are reasons, then it can be understood.

Love is something which can happen more than once but not after every break up of your life. If there is any problem/ issue which can be worked out then why not do that. Do you think you will get love of your life so easily, you will get a partner who understands you or if he/she is not understanding some of your points then too trying hard, making adjustment to understand it and loving you unconditionally even after lot of arguments? Just think. Will you find anyone in future who can give you love and happiness which your partner gave you. It is not easy in today’s world.  

Save your love and save your life. People think when break up happens, we move on and life goes on. Don’t give up on such a relationship because after that life might still go on, but without love.